So back on St. Pat’s Day I ran into a guy (call him AZ) I met thru my BFF. I hadn’t seen him in a long time so he, along with his friends, ended up drinking with my BFF and me. 
I was really drunk and was SUPER flirty with AZ. For whatever reason it pissed off my BFF. I barely remember this, but I know she yelled at me about it in front of AZ. I think she was mad because he was “one of the many guys I was trying to ‘hang out with’ that weekend, and because he was her friend, and she’s always thought AZ was cute.”

Last weekend, we ran into AZ again and she invited him to go to this beer fest with us the next day. While at beer fest, I was kinda flirty with AZ again (even though I was 100% sober) and I could tell she was getting upset. So I stopped. 
After beer fest we drove back to Lansing and they all tired to get me drunk because I had been sober all day and was the DD. So toward the end of the night, my BFF ran into a guy she knew (call him RR) and wanted to go home with him.
Now I’m not 100% sure if AZ invited me to go home with him, or how that ended up happening, but we took my BFF and RR back to RR’s place and then I went back with AZ. After a 20 minute drive, I was at AZ’s house for 15 minutes before I got a text from BFF telling me she was going to get a cab home being RR was too drunk. I was a little mad because I was in the middle of an amazing make out sesh, but I felt like it was my duty to go pick her up. AZ asked me to come back after I took her home. 
I spent the night and hung out for a while the next day and I had a blast. He was having a BBQ later that day, but I had already mad plans with my BFF so we never went back over there. 

Now… I have been talking to AZ’s friend (call him Smitty) almost all day about some RANDOM shit but at one point we had this conversation and I am really really pissed off about it. Smitty and I were joking about how I am “cute” and I said:

Me: Now we just have to convince (AZ) to think that way.
Smitty: Haha I already know what he thinks about you.
Me: As long as he doesn’t hate me, I am ok with that.
Smitty: He doesn’t hate you. LoL He just doesn’t want to ruin friendships.
Me: As in mine and (BFFs)?
Smitty: Just in general…better to avoid details … Just afraid his actions will change things in the clique.

The convo changed for a minute but I did say this:

Me: IF he is concerned about (BFF), because of St. Pat’s Day… The only person she will be mad at is me. This might not be what you are getting at, but I am just letting you know that she won’t be mad at (AZ). She will either get over being mad at me or she won’t, and if she doesn’t, then I don’t need a friend like that in my life. 
Smitty: LoL Alright :) I’ll keep that in mind.

The convo continued but… it isn’t important what else was said. This WHOLE situation just pisses me off because she had no right to get mad at me to being with let alone “not be happy” with me because I spent the night with him. It isn’t like they dated, and she NEVER told me she liked him BEFORE St. Pat’s Day. She never talks to him or anything like that. She did this to someone else recently too. She had a crush on this dude and when he hit on me she got mad at me, but I didn’t act on it. When our other friend DID act on him hitting on her, my BFF and this other girl aren’t friends anymore because my BFF got PISSED at the other girl. It’s just like DUDE you can’t FUCKING claim people who don’t want to be claimed by you or in general.

I have had friends in my past make a connection with a dude I was interested in (and had hooked up with multiple times) and I 100% stepped back and let them get together. I was bummed but I didn’t let it ruin my friendship. I’ve had friends like guys I liked before too but it’s whatever. Don’t let a GUY ruin your friendship. But in THIS case, she is letting it ruin our friendship not me. She needs to get over herself or she WILL lose me as a friend.

So I will be back in Tuscaloosa June 5th thru 10th (orientation on the 7th). I originally made the trip this long so I could look for a job and an apartment, but I already signed an apartment lease and pretty sure I have a job. 

If I didn’t have to pay $$$$$, I would change my flight, hotel, and rental car reservation to make the trip shorter. But… 

So I need some suggestions of things to do or people to meet up with, especially since the only girl I know at UAlabama won’t be there when I am. 

Help?